Friday, 4 April 2025

Where is our DDLJ moment : The Rom Com is not Dead you just need to try

Hello bells!πŸ’

Welcome to my little corner of the internet.


Let’s have a little heart-to-heart today❤‍πŸ”₯.Just you, me, and that quiet ache we don’t talk about enough


Where did the butterflies go?πŸ¦‹

Like really why dont boys propose like they used to anymore?😭 What happened to those trembling hands, sweaty palms, those hands colder then the classroom AC,πŸ’¨  the nervous pace like they are defusing bomb πŸ’£ ,the breath that caught halfway through a sentence? When did we trade in shivers for shortcuts?  The look in eye screaming I will faint if you say NO

There was a time when guy used to literally practice the confession like it was school play script. those messed up more then 10 times ,maybe asking his friends ,"Does this sounds ok?"

Where are the flowers? plucked from ur neighbours garden . not just a hello with heart emoji? ❤‍πŸ”₯πŸ’—

The awkward rehearsals in front of a mirror?  Where’s that nervous wreck standing in the corridor, praying to every god he knows just to say, “I like you.”🀌🏼


These days?

“Hey.”

“Hi.”

“U free?”

“Ya.”

“Wanna go out?”

“Okay.”

Proposal: delivered.

Vibes: dead.


We've gone from DDLJ, Jab We Met πŸ’–to Delivered. Seen. Ignored. From butterflies πŸ¦‹in the stomach to bland in the chat box. From fairytale moments to forgettable notifications.

But love, Love was never meant to be normal.πŸŒ•✨πŸ‘ŒπŸ»

It was meant to be a little messy. A little scary. A little magical.

It was meant to make your knees weak and your heart loud louder than the DJ at our Aakriti (college fest) louder than logic, louder than fear.πŸŒ»πŸ’—

What happened to those 30 seconds of courage?

That tiny window of bravery when your whole world slowed down and your heart whispered,

“Just go for it.”🦚

Where’s the stolen glances during lectures?

The eye contactsπŸ‘πŸ‘ that lasted just one second longer than they should’ve?

Where are the little circles you took around the whole corridor just for a two-second glance?πŸ’Ÿ

Those missions with your squad being the FBI detective agent to find their section, their branch, their timetable ,their favourite snack…Heck, even their dog’s name or their blood group too if needed?πŸ˜‚


Where’s the thrill of hearing their name in the middle of nowhere how your ears would literally stand up like they were trained for it?The silent crushes you guarded like treasure, the little sparks of jealousy that made your stomach flip, the nicknames only your heart knew?πŸͺ½


And oh god—remember Truth or Dare?πŸ’˜

“Who’s your crush?” the iconic question of our game .The stares. The giggles. The chaos. The full-blown friend drama that followed. Now? Everyone’s too bold. Too cool. Too quick.


I’m not saying we need flash mobs in malls (but also... I wouldn’t complain, just saying).I’m just asking for a little spark. A little effort. Let’s not normalize these robotic,  and dry proposals  ,microwave-speed love stories .Let’s bring back the slow burn, the butterflies, the build-up.


Let’s fallπŸ’— in love πŸ’“with fallingπŸ’– in love again.πŸ’˜

Because love—real love—

Is supposed to give you goosebumps.❤

It’s supposed to make boring corridors feel like castles.🏫

It’s supposed to make a name feel like poetry.🧾

It’s supposed to make ordinary days feel extraordinary.πŸ’«


So to all my bells reading this…


Go confess.πŸ’ͺ Go feel. πŸ˜€Go live your rom-com.πŸ‚♡πŸŽ”

Because you deserve a love story worth remembering.πŸ˜‡

All it takes is 30 seconds of courage—and a heart that’s done hiding.


Until next time,

yours Pearl.🐚

Where is our DDLJ moment : The Rom Com is not Dead you just need to try

Hello bells!πŸ’ Welcome to my little corner of the internet. Let’s have a little heart-to-heart today❤‍πŸ”₯.Just you, me, and that quiet ache w...